So many older women who have ridden the carousel say it. You might wonder why…
Women will increasingly want you to “man up” as her Sexual Market Options begin to dwindle.
Hot, young girls at their prime could not care less if you “Man up” or not, since she can replace you quite easily. Whereas a mid-30s spinster-to-be will be urging you to grow up and put in a ring on that as she is past her prime and has the harsh reality of a sexual market value that is on free-fall.
All throughout her 20s she will be perpetually cock hopping and dismissing it as “harmless fun”, but all parties eventually wind down and finish. Instead of improving her traits, qualities as a woman throughout her peak physical years, she will be gaining an ego supplicated with desperate men trying to get with her. This will mean her self-perceive value will be substantially higher than what it really is. When she hits 30, its visible she’s aging, guys don’t put in as much effort as they used to, lower quality guys will hit on her, the attention she so much craves just isn’t there anymore. Guys that get with her these days only pump an dump her and then date younger girls. But no, she won’t blame herself for it. She will blame the men of today for being such immature boys who never grow up.
She won’t ever admit to being past it despite being in her 30s now, as the experiences in her 20s are what “shaped” her now, made her a “better person” and she “learnt from those mistakes”. She is now more refined, more travelled, more bright, more cultured, and a lot more deluded. The commitment ship has sailed, now all that she has are her cats.
So next time you hear the phrase “Man Up” realise what it really mean. It means for you to admit that she was a cock hopper in her peak years. It means to forget her past, her faults, and the prospects she rejected. Society will expect you to man up, to pay your taxes, put a ring on that damaged woman and contribute positively to civilisation.
So you wonder why guys that don’t do this cop so much hatred. Because they went against the grain, they thought for themselves. People are petrified by the fact that they may be doing the wrong thing.
When you have invested so much into the socially expected life path that would be considered safe and desirable, anything that contradicts that life path is going to question the validity of people’s life choices. It stings them even more when the person rejecting that lifestyle is showing signs of significant success or happiness. The lovable loser attracts their pity, but the successful bachelor attracts their envy even when if there is no need to be envious. The former validates their life decisions, the latter questions it and forces them to evaluate their decisions a little more closely, which is incredibly uncomfortable for many people. Those who are most doubtful of the decisions they have made very often tend to be the most scornful. Likewise, those who take a great deal of social validation from their conformity also tend to be vocal in their criticism.