Monthly Archives: May 2013

A cultural comparative

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So the desire to explore leads me to Eastern Europe. Although I expected things to be different here from back home – I still find it eye opening when making juxtapositions between where I am and where I am from.

It’s evident that although this part of the world isn’t as wealthy as Australia, people are undoubtedly happy. Their attitudes are much more pleasant and enjoyable compared to the usual narcissistic, self-entitled, Gen-Y Westerner. The general population here are satisfied with what they have.

This carries on well to the women here too; aesthetically on average they rank much higher than most places in the English-speaking world. But what is most appealing would be their warm personalities. I’m sure the typical girl anywhere within the Anglo sphere will be far more repulsive and bitchy compared to the typical girl here. Despite being merely average or slightly above  in the looks department, the typical Western girl will foster behaviour which bestows her as some amazing goddess, this partially has been accelerated with emasculating Western men and social media showering her with attention and validation. The end result is attention craving “women” that have behaviour strongly resembling approval seeking toddlers. I feel as if the women here know where they stand, have better self-awareness and act in an according manner.

The immaturity within Western Women leads all throughout their existence. You see, girls here on an overall scale aren’t like your typical easy slags you would find in the US, or UK or Australia. They have the realisation that perpetually riding random dicks (Many of which would be strangers too!) isn’t going to bring them happiness. They don’t seek validation from being an object of desire for a few rolls in the hay stack, from men who couldn’t care one bit about them. Women here stick by what makes them happy. Further to this, the girls here are not the type you really want to pump and dump in the first place, even for the most heartless cad. Why you might ask? Since they are often much more pleasant to be in the presence of, you would be frequently perceiving them as the type that you would rather spend time with unlike the hordes of slores back home that offer no value besides a few hours as a physical outlet.

For women, the emotional damage, delusion and loss of femininity that comes with having a mile-long sexual history greatly outweigh any benefits, if at all that comes from being a carousel-ridden slam piece.  The girls here know this and behave logically in order to prevent this occurrence. The typical girl back home might have traces of this knowledge but she will behave emotionally and struggle to control herself when a guy makes her ‘gina tingle. How many times have you heard slags mention how “It just happened” or how she was “Following her heart”, let’s just say we would all be pretty well off if we were given a dollar every time those rationalisation statements were dropped.

More often than not, the easy westerner will be waking up the next morning and then evaluating her actions maybe even for a few weeks after it occurred. This will eventually be labelled by her as “mistakes” just like the other four or five times they happened, but not to worry as she “learned from it” and it “made her who she is today”. The listing of rationalisations will only grow comprehensively as continues riding the cock carousel throughout the years. You can bet the very “lucky” guy at the end of all this will feel rather privileged defiling her, after the two dozen or so guys before him when she was younger, tighter, and hotter but don’t worry, champ, she was merely “discovering herself” and you’re getting the finished product of all that “discovery” since you are “The one”,  right!?

Although I doubt that this part of the world will remain free from the toxic culture from the Western World forever, thanks to an increasingly globalised world of today. It’s still a pleasant escape from a late-stage terminally declining society.

Some novice readers of my writings are horrified when they stumble upon my work. They deliberate that it is some fictional joke or just rage filled ramblings of an “insane” individual that has had mostly hurtful experiences with particular people. No. While I’ve had my delights and troubles just like any other individual possessing experience in a certain area of life, on the greater spectrum, most of the familiarities and experiences in my life have been and continue to be memorable elations. My “insanity” is the vibrant realisation which comes with thinking for myself, and not perfunctorily accepting what society expects us all to believe. Until you question things and consider things for yourself, you’re merely a product of other people’s thoughts, beliefs and expectations. How original you are.

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“No Expectations!”

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“I’ve got no expectations!”

Ahh.. the amount of times I hear that. Often from carousel-ridden slores that have been pumped, dumped and burnt a few too many times before.

You see, most women in their naive teenage years and early 20s will often have expectations of a love story, a romantic comedy or a fairy tale. It’s what they’ve been exposed to whilst growing up, it’s what they yearn for. Co-incidentally, these are the prime physical years for a female. Each time they get discarded like used trash, they become more distant, aloof, the pain of each pump and dump is often emotionally strenuous. That love story begins to seem more and more of an imaginary dream which just never seems to arrive.

..So what do these girls do?

They distance themselves from their emotions, often convincing themselves that after disappointment after disappointment they have “No expectations” so they don’t get left frustrated, and dissatisfied by another “douchebag” yet again. They hide their natural emotions so much so they steadily become an emotionless being that will not get hurt again. This in-turn begins to affect them, deeper than what they would imagine. Slowly the ability to love and care begin to get affected. They become repulsive, bitchy, painful to endure time around. This occurs simultaneously as they age, and begin their decline in looks and ultimately sexual market value.

The girls that I describe in this post are you are the ones that are average to slightly above average in terms of looks. Why? It is because a man will always notice a woman’s beauty. He does not fall in love with her intellect, her occupation, her credentials, her family connections, her employability, her future time orientation, or her beliefs. You see the absolutely top shelf have their beauty which inspires his commitment, his lust, his affection, his tenderness, his security, his delirium.

So the next time you hear a girl with “No expectations” maybe think twice about how much effort you’re willing to put in. You’re more than likely dealing with a girl who’s done the rounds, and probably past it after being used by and thrown out by dozens of guys in her prime physical years. All you get are the leftovers which are a shade of what she was in her peak. There isn’t much reason to pedastalise her as some angel unless you’re the chump that doesn’t know any better.

Environmental Influence

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The further you deny it, the more you are lying to yourself. The environment which you are directly exposed to, will always influence you. How much so however, is dependent on you.

Think about it, when you are a child you are rewarded for displaying good behaviour and punished for misbehaving. Your parents influenced you.

When you’re in school, you are rewarded with awards and commended for good grades. When the opposite occurs you are encouraged to improve. Your teachers influenced you.

When you are in the workforce, you are rewarded for achieving your KPIs with raises and promotions and if you fail to do so, you aren’t. Your superiors influenced you.

When you work out, you are rewarded with visual attention from others if you are fit, and invisible to many if you’re unfit. The general public influenced you.

Simply, you gain validation for effort, you seek reward for effort, and you’re influenced by external factors.

Think about how much of your actions that you perform regularly come from pure desire within and how much of it is due to external rewards and punishments.

Whether it’s money, affection, validation, it’s no surprise to see that factors that arise from others lead to many of our motivations and actions.

You’re simply a product of your environment, a human being of your times. What’s around you has shaped you to who you are, the cultures you have gained exposure to, have impacted your viewpoints, your values, your mindset.

Simply consider on a hypothetical basis that you were born in a different era, or another culture, you would be so different to what you are now. You may struggle to recognise yourself. You could be studying something completely different. You could be working in a different profession. Your hobbies and interests could be vastly dissimilar to what they are right now.

Many people would like to believe that their actions come purely from internal desire, but once you think about it. Much of what you do is due to factors around you, impacting you.