When a woman experiences intense euphoric pleasures with a man from the highest calibre, she can never go back to dating less men. Her hypergamy is strong. She will only seek to find men of a similar calibre or greater in the future.
Any man with a clear view of the world is aware that a woman’s sexual market value (SMV) diminishes with age after her early-20s. So what does a woman do if she wasted her prime years on a high-value man who discarded her when he got bored? She tries and tries to find another man who may or may not be looking for anything serious but is of a similar SMV to her past lover. This process generally leaves her getting pumped and dumped a few too many times.
A woman’s disgust for lesser, weak men is so strong she would rather go through years of emotional torture and drama in order to get moments of pleasure with men of her desire rather than longer term affection from a man she doesn’t deem as worthy.
Let that process in your mind for a while.
If you’re a chummy herb trying to win over that girl who’s just broken up with that douchebag boyfriend, she would rather go to another douchebag and be a slam piece than be lavished with your fine dining and weekends away.
And that is a truth.
These “Pass arounds” are often known as “Alpha widows”, whom are so deeply damaged by greater lovers in the past that many of them are very unlikely to heal fully. Their expectations have changed so much after experiencing uncontrollable attraction to a certain type of men that she simply will not give the time of day to many men. She is a widow. A pass around. Passed around a certain tier of men but never attaining commitment.
The most extreme case of this would be Monica Lewinsky. The woman who got worldwide fame for blowing Bill Clinton. Sure she got some cash out of the whole ordeal but since then her life has largely sucked. Evidenced from the following excerpt from Wikipedia:
By 2014, she had still not held a full-time job since leaving the Pentagon in 1997. A stable relationship leading to marriage, which she reportedly desired, had also not happened
Given the nature of her notoriety it would take a special type of loser to accept a president-blowing slore like her for marriage.
Another example is of women in certain countries having a preference for foreign men. This only really applies to non-western countries as Feminism has scaled the field so far in favour of women in the west that they struggle when they go to more traditional countries in the world. However, in parts of Europe and Asia, some women discover the novelty and pleasure of foreign men and after experiencing extreme enjoyment, they simply cannot pursue a relationship with a man of their own race. They become foreign groupies, maybe even secret society girls. But ultimately they’ll be passed around amongst foreigners.
The pass around is damaged goods, as a man you must recognise that she’s worn out and potentially unable to emotionally bond to such levels as she has previously experienced. My advice is to wear her out a bit more and pass her on to the next guy like she’s nothing special. No man wants to be the one ending up with someone else’s drama.