Category Archives: Culture

Mental Health in Melbourne

Since I’ve left the drudgery of Melbourne a few years ago, its appeared to me that there’s a substantially high amount of people I was acquainted with or knew over the years that suffered or are suffering “mental health” problems in Melbourne.  It seems to be pretty prevalent, compared to my friends in other parts of the world its been a rather disproportionate figure relating to those exclusively in Melbourne.

Either you go full liberal and cuck up the culture of feminism and fag marriage

or you depress yourself by trying to defy the brainwashing and end up mentally unwell.

..or you say fuck that shit, stack up cash, invest wisely, and carve a life elsewhere where this kind of nonsense doesn’t exist.

Choose wisely.

 

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Close Calls

Social media, ahh can’t avoid it nor live without it. As little as I do use it, sometimes on long flights over the pond where boredom sets in, there’s a part of me that thinks of creative ways to kill time.

Recently, I came across some friends from my schooling years that appeared on my feed.

They still lived in Melbourne and had a similar life to when I left. I’ve come to get used to this over the years so the disappointment of coming across this has worn off, however, I noticed a girl in one of the photos.

I remember her vaguely, as she was one loose girl whom a few of us had banged on a first year camp. I clicked on her profile and noticed how she was now engaged to a classmate of mine, small world.

It’s strange how the dumpster diving world works in Australia. Girls whom guys would often look down on due to their low self-esteem that needed validation through casual sex were now getting commitment from the guys that would be doing much better in any other part of the world.

I looked at some of the photos, him leaning into her, her more masculine than him and the beta-body language just revealed all about the dynamics of this relationship.

But this is the reality that so many face, they accepted they will be soft cuckolds committing to the used goods that guys like me used when they were tighter, hotter and younger. It took me an hour of banter over a beer to slam it raw, yet he gets to enjoy menopause with her.  What a lucky guy.

I thought long and hard, although I’ve been through a lot of fun with a lot of these pump and dump quality girls, I have to count myself lucky that I had a better idea of how dynamics between men and women worked before the feminist brainwashing era of today. Or maybe I would be one of those guys stuck in Melbourne and dating the skanks of yesterday whom are now seeking commitment after being filled up by dozens of randos.

The dating down will only get worse, the girls will only get sluttier, the whoredom will only get more and more accepted. Luckily, to a degree, I avoided this, I avoided the entitled nature of the girls there, I enjoyed intimacy, then I left and moved on to the next one without a worry in the world. I got out of the place where I felt would hinder my life.

Of course, there were some special snowflakes that I came across but my desire to explore and grow meant that there was nothing that was going to keep me trapped in that Toxic city.

But social media, thank you for confirming my thoughts.

Subsidising PrEP, The message.

PrEP-in-Pills

You live in Australia. You work hard, you pay your taxes and hope those taxes bring the country forward and enhance the country. Then you see that your hard-earned taxes are being used to subsidise a drug that is used as an enabler for homosexual men to engage in unprotected sex with lower chances of contracting HIV.

Imagine that, you’re basically footing the bill so a sub-group of individuals can get more pleasure from their sexual escapades.

Would a prostitute fund where men can get a subsidy to engage in sex with prostitutes be accepted by the population? I mean they are able to enjoy care-free pleasure at the expense of others., same principle right?

I’m glad I don’t reside nor pay taxes to that government anymore.

Middle-aged women from Sweden pay to have sex with young male migrants

Interesting read, let the decline continue, Sweden.

The manosphere has, for some time, speculated in regard to females penchant for male migrants and what the causes for this kind of seemingly preposterous pattern of behavior are.

Roosh has emphasized the lack of offspring as a reason why some members of the opposite sex go crazy and use pets or migrants as substitutes for real babies. Cheateau Heartiste has looked upon the everlasting female urge for strong men as a reason why male migrants are so popular among feminists, despite the fact that the former tend to be more prone to assault and rape than native men.

Others point to pathological altruism (women tend to feel bad about those poor migrants, even if they are real or potential rapists or were economic migrants in the first place) and general irrational behavior (women tend to lack the ability to make substantial fact-based consequence analyses). Also, more males means less competition for females. That’s maybe why they are less keen on letting their poor global sisters in. Everything that is bad for (white) western men are good news for leftists and feminists.

Whether or not the root cause is somehow linked to one or several of the above-mentioned explanations, another consequence is that a significant amount of women actively seek out young male migrants for sex. Last year, here in Sweden, a couple of women were reported or even charged in the aftermath of having sex with adolescent males (or at least young adults), between 13-20 years of age. While nationalist media outlets were not surprisingly inclined to interpret these cases as proof of a widespread phenomenon, even liberal media wrote about this indelicate matter.

Western European couple adopts an African “child”

I had a couple of online discussions after having read reports on these events and suggested that these women seem to yearn for younger males, which is morally and legally questionable, whereas politically correct social media (((friends))) stressed that these decent middle-aged women just wanted to take care of the poor migrants and that sexual benefits were only rare occasions.

Well, now even the massively left-leaning government radio outlet Sveriges Radio has reported on the very same topic, and the phenomenon appears to be far more common than the limited number of cases that earlier reports implied. Multiple young male migrants from North Africa, especially Morocco, who dwell at the infamous Sergels Torg in the center of Stockholm, are sought out by older women who offer them food and shelter in exchange for sexual favors. This typically occurs after the daily drug dealing has ended for the day, at late night.

It seems to be a pretty good deal for ugly wrinkled women to be banged by weather-beaten yet fairly athletic youngsters with an exotic flavor. As thirsty as many native men may be, extremely few of them are still willing to sleep with your friend’s mom or grandma. The aesthethic bottom of society is left for the, quite literally and metaphorically, allochthonous scavengers who are seldom reluctant to say no to such generous offers.

If one zooms out on this subject and looks at underlying causes, it is obvious that economic, political and sociocultural factors matter. Middle-aged western women, especially in feminist Sweden, feel entitled, and as being part of the global middle class they have the amount of disposable income needed to travel abroad in order to have sex with alluring foreign males or seek them out at locally. It’s the equivalent of older men who go to Pattaya in Thailand, or the city’s sex district for that matter.

In Sweden some call these women batikhäxor

Inequality of income, whether at the local or global level, will always exist to some degree and I don’t see a problem with isolated instances of single women who want to get sexual satisfaction from younger guys.

However, this is a broader and deeper problem who among other things reflects the great surplus of men, a situation which was created completely “artificially” by the left hands of feminists and globalists. If these were truly concerned about poor and vulnerable people they could have just let more females in instead of physically able young men from Africa and Asia. This looks more and more like a politically correct scam that only red pill men dare to speak about.

Swedenstan, alongside cucked Canada, with prime menstruator Trudeau as the true proponent of crazy ideas, are leading the sexes astray with weird ideals and ideas that in the long run do no one no good. Not even the male migrants who come to the West in large numbers.

 

Be Bulletproof

I often wonder how adaptable a person can be.

How would they survive if they were taken from the creature comforts of their home city, and dropped into an environment where they didn’t know a word of the local language or a single soul.

How would they react?

Would they whinge and put down everything around them and miss home.

Or would they adapt, put their head down and observe, learn words daily and begin to adapt to the cultural norms.

In reality, most people go through phases of culture shock but the people who are of a higher calibre learn to adapt. They don’t sit around playing Pokemon Go until the odd hours of the night, instead they improve themselves through acquiring knowledge or skills.

You see, people often take the path of least resistance. They are unwilling to step outside of their comfort zone. This could mean never leaving Melbourne besides the annual trip to Bali or Japan. Or Never trying to enter a new field. The list can go on.

But what truly sets the brilliant apart from the average is their ability to adapt.

I’ve noticed it where I live now. The people who are transient in their base but are a calibre above the average are much more in-tune with their surroundings. They adapt so well that they go much further than the hooligan that looks totally misplaced in their behaviour, not just their appearance.

Sure, leaving the west is great, and I am sure many more people who were established back home will take the plunge, but once you do leave, you cannot simply live abroad with the same attitudes and behaviours that you have developed back home.

I for one can totally tell the level that I have changed myself over the years. The bitterness of being in a place where I couldn’t agree or accept its values just made me unhappy. That doesn’t happen anymore.

..but there are other challenges.

The challenge of “Belonging”.

Some societies, you simply wont ever belong regardless of how long you live there.

You’ll always be viewed as different.

Countries that are against Mass-migration and protect their borders and cultures through a largely homogeneous racial profile in its population, will rarely view someone as their own based purely on their foreign appearance.

This is just something you’ll have to accept.

It has its pros and cons but the pros definitely out shine the pain of living back home.

This is something that most never really think of when they are hoping to set up life abroad, it just comes after a while of living in a different society.

SlutWalk Infection

I was walking through Roppongi on an early Saturday evening, peacefully enjoying the nice vibe in Tokyo before noticing a local girl in her early 20’s.

Nothing special, a total plain Jane with minimal appeal to most men. She rocked a pretty strange hairstyle which was coloured in a bright fluorite shade of pink.

But the T-Shirt she was wearing caught my attention.

It had text which read out the following:
“My Pussy
My Choice”

Now where have we seen this before?

Ahh yes, SlutWalks!

It’s been a long time since I seen SlutWalk related garbage (Thank god for leaving the West!), but maybe this was the first time I had seen any reference to it in Asia.

In traditional societies, there generally isn’t any liberal garbage thrown around, society just functions like it’s supposed to. Inter-gender relations stay normal.

So, it’s usually freak-show feminists, or plain Jane outcasts that want some attention whom jump on these Feminist bandwagons.

Below is a typical Feminist transformation:

You’ll never see a girl become more beautiful after she’s exposed to Feminism. She will become the worst version of herself. In modern times, people strive to be the best they can be both physically, emotionally and culturally. and then you have Feminism. Which is basically a disease that undoes all that. The ideology of it in modern times is so biased and strange that it leaves no surprise as to why the outcomes of its beliefs are often marked with trends of increased degeneracy.

 

 

 

Then Vs. Now

Came across this, how glorious.

Then:

Now:

It’s the White Side of History vs the Blight Side of History.

Our globohomo cosmopolitans are titillated by the thought of the White race becoming a vintage relic.

Our job is to stop them from realizing their dream.

So do you think your grand kids will look anything like you?

Why Western Women Have So Much Freedom

We hate how easy it can be. We hate that if it isn’t us, it will be with some other guy. We hate that so many women will likely never make decent wives or mothers. And we hate when a woman who spent her most attractive years hooking-up with strange men tries to play the good girlfriend with us. It’s a bittersweet relationship at best.

Women love that they can have their cake and eat it too. They love that they can employ an alpha fux beta bux strategy. But they also are far less stable in marriage than their less promiscuous counterparts. Though they might not admit it, it’s a bittersweet relationship for them as well.

This is why men say not to turn a ho into a housewife.

What is it about Western society that allows for this degree of female sexual freedom? Science has several factors that help explain it.

Reliable Care For Unplanned Pregnancies

Several studies provide great insights in to this matter. The first is “Norms of Premarital Sexual Behavior: A Cross-Cultural Study” by Gwen J. Broude. The second is “Cultural Customs That Influence Sexual Freedom in Adolescence” by Herbert Barry III and Alice Schlegel. The former can be found on Google Scholar, but you’ll need access to a database to read the second.

Both studies use data and results from numerous other studies, so they are a good launching point if you choose to go down this rabbit hole.

One of the more significant findings in these studies is the importance of care for children born out of wedlock. In societies that are matrilineal (trace descent through the mother’s family) and/or matrilocal (reside with mother’s family), there is an association with female premarital sexual permissiveness (the common measurement of women’s sexual freedom).

What made the correlation significant is when care for children was factored in to the equation. When a baby is born out of wedlock, if there are more people in the house willing to care for the child, there is a significant correlation with female premarital sex.

We are always reminded that correlation does not equal causation, but in this case, kinship theory and paternity certainty can help explain a cause for this. There are societies (usually matrilineal) in which the father does not care for a child, the mother’s brothers do. While the father shares more of his genes with a child than a maternal uncle does, he can never truly be certain (until modern paternity tests are used) that a child is his. Maternal uncles, however, have 100% certainty that their nephews are theirs.

The latter study mentions:

Matrilineal descent encourages sexual freedom by minimizing the need to establish paternity of the children. In our society, fear of pregnancy is likewise relieved by the development and widespread use of effective contraceptive devices. The mobility of individuals and families in our industrial society corresponds to an attribute of many horticultural societies, where descent is associated with sexual freedom.

This is why, in my article on saving American families, I argue for measures that force parents to care for their own children.

Female Coming Of Age Rituals

In highly stratified, complex societies like ours, coming of age rituals for females are correlated with sexual freedom. There isn’t much explanation for this in the literature. But we can imagine scenarios in our own society that could offer insight.

If we take a scenario like a sweet sixteen birthday party in which girls who are already maturing sexually are welcomed into womanhood, we can see why a girl at that age would engage in premarital sex. They can’t marry and are told they shouldn’t anyway for several more years. Yet they are welcomed into womanhood. Adult women have sex. Being allowed to have sex but not allowed or not encouraged to get married is a recipe for sexual freedom.

Sweet 16 or a Kirill champagne facial night club event? I can’t tell.

Another ritual like leaving the house to live in a university dorm could have essentially the same effect.

High Degree Of Personal Freedom

Unlike other stratified societies, where individuals are tied to their families by strict cultural norms and expectations and by family honor codes, ours emphasizes personal freedom. That is something typically found in less stratified, hunter-gatherer type cultures.

Because our society doesn’t define an honor code or integrity very well, we have personal honor codes and personal integrity. Nobody holds you accountable to them but yourself. If your personal honor code doesn’t restrict premarital sex, it is allowed. That’s as true for women now as it is for men.

Women At Work

One of the findings of these studies was a positive correlation between women’s contribution to providing for the household and sexual freedom. Western society is consistent with this.

The more women work—especially outside the home—to contribute to the home, the more female premarital sex is permitted. It’s not hard to imagine a graph in which women’s sexual freedom rises as the percent of their financial contribution to household income increases, though such a graph does not yet exist. Think of women in the 1950s, how much they worked, and how much sexual freedom they had versus women in 2018.

One last piece, which was mentioned but not discussed in depth but probably should be, was the sexual freedom of males. Obviously, if males have more freedom, they need women with whom to have sex. Logic tells us that the ratio would be 1:1, give or take. To imply otherwise would be to permit a small number of women to sleep with many men.

This leads to the question, “Can we curb liberal female attitudes to sex while allowing males sexual freedom by permitting prostitutes to operate freely?” More importantly, should we?

 

“…Or I’m going to leave”

“…or I’m going to leave”

 

The rare times I hear a sentence with that ending from a woman, it’s been an absolute blessing.

You see weather its some fling, bang-buddy or girlfriend, that type of demand simply doesn’t tie too well with me.

In the west, given the thirst of the common man, they would give in to this demand, but the moment I hear this, I would rather her leave.

Why? Because she’s replaceable. When you’re jugging a harem as well as slaying new skanks on the regular, what’s one naggy, demanding pussy worth to you? Literally nothing. There’s enough action going on with girls and life that this kind of immaterial nuisance needs to be discarded.

Whenever you’re offered an ultimatum like that the damage is already done. You give in and you’re a cucked loser whom the girl will lose a ton of respect for, simply for caving in. If you let her go, she’ll either come running back to apologise for her lapse in judgment or she’ll disappear. Both of which are wins. If she comes back, she’s got the same alignment in values and same vision as you, and if she disappears, it saves you time from a drama-queen that doesn’t fit into your life anyway.

For any guy whose used to lifestyle of abundance this comes as no surprised, but try telling this to the average Melbourne guy, it simply doesn’t bode with them. The pussified upbringing that this generation is going to face will have some pretty big consequences in this facet of their lives.

 

Melbourne: The Killer of Inspiration

I was out with a couple of friends in Lan Kwai Fong whilst on a business trip. I heard some Australian accents at the bar we were at and came across some students from The University of Melbourne, undergrads who were still attending University. Still naive as ever, and careerist as ever. They introduced themselves and were curious about how life is like for someone outside of Australia. I was frank and told them everything I knew, eventually they started telling me about what life in Melbourne is like (Not that I really care).

Inevitably, the whole Gay Marriage issue came up and their constant uttering of excessive positive words had me thinking how much the environment has influenced them. You see, some things, deny it all you like, people will feel a natural urge of discomfort or disgust towards. That is simply human nature, you cannot change something that is inherent in humans. So what does a leftopia nation do? It conditions the people so heavily to make something that people feel repulsed towards seem “awesome”. The fakeness and over-emphasis of how amazing “Gay culture”, “Gay clubbing” and every other leftist ideology indicated to me that deep inside that’s probably not how they truly felt, but given their environment they are shamed and ostracized for not caving into the pressures of these notions. Back say 10 years ago, you probably could still say you opposed Gay Marriage or being more picky on migrants is a good idea, but nope, not anymore.

Indeed, it’s a free country, but free if you agree with the leftist agenda. The social shaming (and also criminal charges) that would come for truly saying what you believe in is way too big of a risk to face when discussing anything of this nature.

When you come to accept that the belief systems, values and culture of a place so different to your own, you simply don’t want to contribute to it anymore. It makes me sick to the stomach knowing that my taxes would go towards a mail vote for a progressive ideology, and so, you leave. You leave behind a damaged society to live in a place that is more “traditional” or closely aligns with your values.

And so, I come back to visit and notice nothing has changed. Things only seem to be worse.

The traffic is heavier, the safety is worse, the amount of de-generate migrants increasing, homo-levels through the roof, leftism at new peaks, nothing, literally nothing has improved.

The people I know here are slugging it out and paying their taxes, funding the cleverest uses of money ever.

The ones that had interests and ambitions to do something great, they faded. They settled for a dull suburban existence consisting of hours of sitting in traffic weekly, coupled with long commutes to anywhere with a sign of life.

The rest dug into their careers to numb themselves of their placid existence in place marred with drudgery.

I think of the insane times, the joys, the lows, the experiences that came from leaving this place behind and they were…. breathtaking. It’s something you simply cannot get in a place where you are implicitly encouraged to be part of the mediocre herd of sheep.

Here, people will spend hours sucking up to their boss and working late to get nothing in return.
In cities of significance, on one night out you can come across someone innocuously that could give you some of the best connections you can possibly make.

So while you’re rushing to get off work, only to sit in peak hour traffic or squash yourself into a peak hour train carriage, maybe think about the bigger picture. It isn’t easy especially if you’ve been unfortunate enough to be brainwashed into thinking this existence is “acceptable”, but just try.

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